RUMAH tangga yang sakinah mawaddah wa rahmah tentunya menjadi dambaan setiap orang. Tidak ada satu pun di dunia ini yang menginginkan rumah tangganya berantakan. Namun nyatanya ketika kita hidup di dunia ini, tak selamanya jalan itu akan selalu lurus. Tentunya kita harus melewati persimpangan dan segala penghambat yang menghampiri kita sebelum mencapai tujuan.
Berbicara mengenai rumah tangga, tak ada sesuatu yang sempurna di dunia ini termasuk mengenai rumah tangga. Masalah pasti kunjung menghampiri mahligai rumah tangga siapapun. Baik itu permasalahan internal maupun eksternal rumah tangga.
Banyak orang yang memutuskan untuk mengakhiri rumah tangganya karena sebuah masalah yang tak sanggup mereka hadapi. Tapi tak sedikit pula orang-orang yang mampu membangun rumah tangganya hingga termakan usia walau berbagai masalah terus menerpa.
Berikut ini terdapat empat hal yang dapat menciptakan keharmonisan dalam rumah tangga Anda.
1. Jangan melihat ke belakang
Ketika masalah mulai menghampiri rumah tangga Anda, jangan pernah mengungkit-ungkit alasan awal menikah. “Kenapa saya waktu itu mau nerima aja, ya? Kenapa enggak saya tolak?” Buang jauh-jauh lintasan pikiran seperti itu ketika Anda mempunyai masalah. Hadapi masalah yang tengah Anda alami, pasrahkan semuanya kepada Allah sambil terus berusaha mencari solusi dari masalah yang sedang dihadapi
2. Berpikir objektif
Ketika menghadapi sebuah masalah, jangan pernah disikapi dengan emosional. Apalagi, melibatkan pihak ketiga yang mengetahui masalah internal rumah tangga tidak secara utuh. Karena itu hanya akan memperkeruh masalah. Hadapi sebuah masalah dengan tenang dan berpikir objektif. Lihatlah sisi positif dari masalah yang Anda hadapi. Karena Allah tidak menciptakan segala sesuatu melainkan pasti ada hikmahya, termasuk masalah.
3. Lihatlah kelebihan pasangan, jangan sebaliknya
Untuk menumbuhkan rasa optimis, lihatlah kelebihan pasangan. Jangan sebaliknya, mengungkit-ungkit kekurangan yang dimiliki. Imajinasi dari sebuah benda tergantung pada bagaimana kita meletakkan sudut pandangnya. Lihatlah segala pengorbanan dan sisi positif dari pasangan Anda. Karena setiap manusia diciptakan lengkap dengan kelebihan dan kekurangan. Sadarilah bahwa tidak ada manusia yang sempurna.
4. Sertakan sakralitas berumah tangga
Salah satu pijakan yang paling utama seseorang rela berumah tangga adalah karena adanya ketaatan pada syariat Allah Swt. Padahal, kalau hitung-hitungan materi, menikah itu melelahkan. Justru di situlah nilai pahala yang Allah janjikan. Jadikan setiap masalah adalah hal yang dapat mendekatkan kita pada Rabb Yang Maha Mulia. Karena Dia lah yang memberi solusi atas semua masalah yang terjadi dalam hidup kita.
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If you're just starting out, beginning an investment program may be something that hasn't been on your radar. You may be more concerned with how to pay for items like food and gasoline. However, if you can scrape together even a small amount of money for investment purposes, you'll be on your way to creating a much rosier financial picture in the years to come.
Beating InflationIn addition to making for uncomfortable sleeping, stuffing your money under a mattress does little to mitigate the impact of inflation over time. Putting your money in a regular bank savings account won't help much either because of the typically minuscule interest rates. While placing your money in investment vehicles, such as stocks and mutual funds, introduces an element of risk, you stand a much better chance of outpacing the inflation rate throughout a period of years.
Saving for Retirement
Depending solely on social security benefits as your source of retirement income probably won't cut it unless you plan to subsist on a diet of rice and water. Unless your company offers a sizable pension plan, you will probably need to start an investment program as early as possible to ensure a comfortable retirement. IRAs offer an easy way to invest for retirement and also provide certain tax benefits. If your employer offers a 401k plan, you can benefit from the matching funds that many companies will deposit in your account on your behalf.
Putting Your Money to Work
If you have a job, you're undoubtedly familiar with the concept of working for your money. Investing allows you to turn the tide by making your money work for you. Through the magic of compound interest, for example, your accumulated interest actually earns additional money without you having to lift a finger. Consequently, your original investment can multiply greatly over time. For example, if you invested $1,000 at an interest rate of 7 percent compounded annually, your investment would grow to $7,612.26 after 30 years.
Financial Resource
Some investments can fulfill more than one financial purpose and serve as a valuable resource. For instance, when you purchase a home, it may appreciate in value and yield a handsome profit when you sell it. Additionally, as you make your monthly mortgage payments you build up equity, which is the amount of your ownership stake in the property. You can borrow against your accumulated equity by taking out a home equity loan or home equity line of credit to help you more immediate financial needs.
a HOW TO INVEST The Importance of Financial Investments
If you're just starting out, beginning an investment program may be something that hasn't been on your radar. You may be more concerned with how to pay for items like food and gasoline. However, if you can scrape together even a small amount of money for investment purposes, you'll be on your way to creating a much rosier financial picture in the years to come.
Beating InflationIn addition to making for uncomfortable sleeping, stuffing your money under a mattress does little to mitigate the impact of inflation over time. Putting your money in a regular bank savings account won't help much either because of the typically minuscule interest rates. While placing your money in investment vehicles, such as stocks and mutual funds, introduces an element of risk, you stand a much better chance of outpacing the inflation rate throughout a period of years.
Saving for Retirement
Depending solely on social security benefits as your source of retirement income probably won't cut it unless you plan to subsist on a diet of rice and water. Unless your company offers a sizable pension plan, you will probably need to start an investment program as early as possible to ensure a comfortable retirement. IRAs offer an easy way to invest for retirement and also provide certain tax benefits. If your employer offers a 401k plan, you can benefit from the matching funds that many companies will deposit in your account on your behalf.
Putting Your Money to Work
If you have a job, you're undoubtedly familiar with the concept of working for your money. Investing allows you to turn the tide by making your money work for you. Through the magic of compound interest, for example, your accumulated interest actually earns additional money without you having to lift a finger. Consequently, your original investment can multiply greatly over time. For example, if you invested $1,000 at an interest rate of 7 percent compounded annually, your investment would grow to $7,612.26 after 30 years.
Financial Resource
Some investments can fulfill more than one financial purpose and serve as a valuable resource. For instance, when you purchase a home, it may appreciate in value and yield a handsome profit when you sell it. Additionally, as you make your monthly mortgage payments you build up equity, which is the amount of your ownership stake in the property. You can borrow against your accumulated equity by taking out a home equity loan or home equity line of credit to help you more immediate financial needs.
HOW TO INVEST Five Key Points to Consider Before Investing
So you and your special someone are thinking about beginning an investment program. That's a wise move because the earlier you start investing the more time your nest egg has to grow. Invest only $250 a month for 20 years at 5 percent interest and you'll have $102,758. Increase the rate of return to 8 percent and the total jumps to $147,255.
Financial Fitness
Before you start socking away money in an investment account do a fitness check on your finances. Your savings account should total from three to six months of living expenses before you start playing the stock market. It doesn't make sense to invest money until you've paid off your credit card balances. The average credit card interest rate on new credit cards as of June 8, 2012, is 14.9 percent according to FoxBusiness.com.
Risk Tolerance
Different types of investments have different levels of risk. A savings account has very little risk, but then the rate of return is low as well. Money markets are rather safe. Mutual funds spread the risk because a number of companies make up the mutual fund's portfolio. Investing in individual companies can pay off handsomely or help you lose money. If you get butterflies at the mere thought of losing any of your investment then consider a low risk investment strategy.
Goals
Determine your goals. Sit down with each other and your favorite beverage and hash out why you want to invest, how much you plan on investing each month and what you hope your investment portfolio will total at the end of one year, two years, five years and 10 years. Consider that as your life changes your goals may change. While your current goal may be to save enough for a down payment on a home, in 15 years you may be looking at funding your kids' college education.
Diversification
All your eggs in one basket is a bad investment strategy. In other words don't put all your money in tech stocks, gold or your cousin's Vinny's pizza parlor. Diversify your investment portfolio, so that if one investment tanks, the others won't be affected. That includes any investing in your employer's stock. If your employer goes bankrupt, not only have you lost your job, you've lost your investments. Consider liquidity as well as risk. Getting cash out of your money market takes place nearly instantaneously. Artwork, collectibles and antiques may take weeks to sell and depending on the market, may not yield as much as you hoped.
Time and Knowledge
Getting up to speed on what to invest in takes time and knowledge. If that doesn't appeal to either of you, consider a financial planner or adviser. Planners are paid on a commission based on what you invest in or a flat fee based on how much time he spends with you.
